So Im a little freaked out, I was being a nosy gf and snooping through my boyfriend email (wrong I know) and I found he was talking to someone off of craigslist. I freaked out thinking it was some girl he was talking to until I scrolled down and their was a picture of a huge dick at the bottom of the screen. I freak and confronted him and he tried to tell me that someone hacked his account and did this. The guy he was emailing asked for his stats and #%$$ and they were my bfs stats so i really don't know what to think. It didnt go it like meeting up with each other or anything just back and forth about stats and #%$$. My bf is kinda a know womanizer, he has a kid, i know that doesn't matter. I never heard anyone accuse him of being gay or bi and our sex life is fine I think we don't have enough of it but may just be a lower sex drive on his part, I've never had trouble with him not being aroused by me. I told him if he had something to tell me I'd still love him, He told me Im the only one He wants to be with. Is it possible for a man to be aroused by men but not actually be gay or bi? I'm not gay or bi and I will be aroused by lesbian !@*# or are the dynamics not the same for men? I'm very confused