Alma, what's this man's first name? It isn't Albert or Al.Lynn (as he likes to be called) is it? His conversation as you describe it sounds like a man by that name whom I know who likes to eMail Filipino women. If that is his name, I can tell you about him.

--From Mimi - removed your email address so you won't get on some spammer's list. You can still be contacted via your inbox here on ezboard - safer.

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Alma,

The the guy I know (Albert) HAS used other names on the internet - so I am not sure if it's he - Albert has a birthday of Dec. 8th, but "Marc" could have lied to you and said that his was the same birthday as yours in order to get closer to you.

By the way, Albert has a son named MARCUS. Albert also called me Cleopatra and said that he was Marc Antony (as a joke). This man may be Albert. If so, stay away for your own safety, as Albert has been married 4 times, is violent towards women, is a felon who went to prison for First Degree Burglary and is an active alcoholic. He has married 3 non-US citizens for money. He is also unemployed because he cannot find anyone who would hire a felon. He owes almost $20,000 to the US government. But he is attempting to go to college and has completed less that 2 years of credits in a psychology field major (substance abuse counselor). He thinks that he can far in the future get a master's degree from USC.

Alma, I have heard the kind of conversation which you described from a man (Albert specifically) before - word-for-word, in fact. The conversation REALLY means that Marc did NOT think that he was speaking to you when you had your friend contact him online: that is his lie he used because you caught him cheating with your friend - he is trying to push the blame on you and make you feel guilt. Your suspicions proved correct! What I am saying applies, even if Marc is NOT Albert.

The rest of Marc's conversation indicates clearly that he is no longer interested in you. He probably lost interest when you caught him cheating on you, as you were of value to him only as long as you believed his lies. He probably tries to make a lot of women fall in love with him to stroke his ego: he was probably using you to stroke his own ego - you were of no value as a person. He never calls or eMails you: this is a BIG
clue!

I think that "Marc" was always cheating on you, and this is the end of your "relationship" that would have occurred in any event. You were in love with an illusion that he created, and wanted you to believe. Surely you can find a man offline. I believe that this online dating is extremely dangerous, and heartbreaking.

Remember, before you marry anybody, do a criminal and credit and marriage background check on him. If you marry a man with bad credit, his credit rating will destroy yours, because they are combined when you marry. You also need to know if you will become financially liable for your husband's child support payments, should he forget to mention to you that he is paying them.