Hi,

I am writing in regard to a previous post. I wrote asking your advice about an issue that I had with a married man.
I really want to first say that the psychology of relationships really makes a difference. I have been reading your posts and doing some soul searching and other readings. I have been enlightened.
I have decided to let the "married man" go. I don't want to have an affair with a man that will never be mine, and I want to respect myself and be true to myslef. My fellings for this man may have been real. There was passion. There was physical and intellectual attraction. However, there are also lots of other things to consider: the consquences. But, enough about that.
I am really going to give it the best shot I have with my husband who is devoted to me. There are things that I love about him: he loves bubble baths; he cries at weddings; he is sensitive to the emotions and feelings of others; he is commited and faithful. If I lose that him, I have lost a special person in my life.
I think you ladies are great!

Nikki