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Pictures sent on cellphone

feeds@yuku.com (Izzypop) — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:24:14 GMT

I was having a long distant affair with someone and he wanted me to send so pretty personal pictures of myself to him, and I did. I have never done anything like that before. Were not really that personal anymore, we only talk ever so often. I want to ask him if he still has the pictures of me on his phone and if so I want him to delete them before somebody else see them. I don't want to upset him because I'm hoping maybe we can get a lot closer again, I really care about him. I was...

Whats happening?

feeds@yuku.com (Billy) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:59:53 GMT

Hiya, I'm married to my wife for six years. We've two beautiful children, aged 5 & 2. We both work. My wife is employed full time 9-5. Up till recently we've had an excellent love life. Lots of laughs. The kids keep us busy and we've had a number of bugs ......colds, sick tummies etc.....so sleep is at a premium. Of late our sex life has ceased. We've gone from making love very regularly to currently once a month. Its now been five weeks. I've tried to talk with my...

Recent Breakup

feeds@yuku.com (xJCx) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:25:31 GMT

My girlfriend and I had been dating for about 2 and a half years and about 2 weeks ago we broke up. A week later (wednesday) we had'nt spoke or anything n at evening service she asked to sit next to me and I said sure. For the rest of the sevice we didnt speak and before i leave i gave her a hug yet still no words exchanged. Later that night she called me and we talked about why she had broken up with me. Then the next day we just kinda txt back and forth and I go and have lunch with...

He's distant after 4 months..losing trust

feeds@yuku.com (PreciousOne) — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 10:21:48 GMT

Hi, I need some advise here. My boyfriend of 4 months..same old story I hear all the time. Things were good in the beginning we talked all the time and couldn't wait to see each other. Then about 2 months into the relationship he's backing away, and I find he has been texting some other girls and saying personal things to her on text similar to what we say on text. Should I confront and end this or just wait and see what happens, my gut tells me to move on, I don't want an...

When is enough enough?

feeds@yuku.com (reincarnateray) — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:48:44 GMT

Hi. I have been married to my wife for three years now and we have two small boys. I run my own real estate/construction businesses and serve in the army national guard. Since we have been together my wife has lied about money and the situation at home whenever I am away, causing very negative results for the business that supports our family. I had actually attempted leave her after advice from women with alterior motives last december, but ended up staying trying to work things out. I left...

need some female advice

feeds@yuku.com (jgab) — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 02:34:57 GMT

I am a 34 year old white male, I am in love with a wonderful 24 year old black female. I was married previously for 5 years until spouse decided recreational drugs, and party life were more important than our commitment to each other. After my divorce I was fortunate to find an excellent counselor who helped me work through my issues.Fortunetely we did not have any children, so a clean break was a lot easier than some...

I am puzzled? Need some advice

feeds@yuku.com (timmyboy022881) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:37:43 GMT

I have been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. She wanted to talk with me which was cool because usually I am the one who usually approach like that. She said you look like a pretty cool person to talk to. At first I thouht you know just somebody just wanting to talk. So we started messaging each other a couple of times a day. I thing we really started hitting it off pretty good. Then we started talking a lot more. Like messaging each other in the morning. Saying Goodmorning, How are you...

Break Up With Long Distance Girlfriend?

feeds@yuku.com (longdistance1) — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 14:16:19 GMT

I need some advice. I've been dating a girl now for 8 years. The last 3 years have been long distance. I'm in California, she's in Massachusetts. I love her but I don't think we want the same things. She wants to get married and have kids sometime in the near future. Maybe someday I'll want those things but maybe I wont. Basically I don't know, but right now I need to be in a situation where it's not a MUST. I don't think I'll ever get married...

Wife left me 4 weeks ago after 9.5 years of Marriage

feeds@yuku.com (joe) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:05:37 GMT

There is obviously more to it (9.5 years). But I will start with why I'm here. My wife left me 4 weeks ago(Sept 16th), took my 2 teenage step daughters and even took the dog. We have owned a house for the first time for the past 2.5 years now. She was laid off in July of this year and had a hard time with the unemployment office. Finally was rectified. She has had massive allergies and had dificulty getting an appointment for an allergist (took 2 months).Anyways things were a little...

Is this cheating...?

feeds@yuku.com (laxboss13) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:08:46 GMT

Hi, I'm trying to get a new perspective on a problem that my gf and I had. Here's the story:

I am 23 she is 20. We live about two hours apart. We have been dating for 6 months now and things are getting serious. We have been talking about her moving in with me.

Deleted this post.

feeds@yuku.com (lostinlife) — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 08:59:38 GMT

not a good forum for answers, there probably isn't any answers to my prob. just live with it, so I've deleted my post.

Men and their silly hints

feeds@yuku.com (benkar) — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:59:56 GMT

Now, this guy from out of town that just moved here came up to me and asked me where the good bars were. I told him "well, you can go to this one or this one, those are pretty cool." One of my co-workers overheard and when he left she came up to me and pretty much told me I was an idiot because he was asking me out. My response was that he did not ask me to go with him, and that I just told him of some nice places he could go. But she said that's what guys do when they're...

Chance to move to England. Should I go?

feeds@yuku.com (binoo) — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 17:24:23 GMT

Hi there,

Over the past several months I've applied to move over to England on a two year working visa. I love the country very much and would like to experience living there.
Shortly before I received news of my approval I met my current love interest, Steven. This was by complete accident and I was purposely making sure not to go on any dates etc. incase this sort of situation occured which is my hesitation to move to England for fear of losing him. But I was immediately...

Messed Up Situation

feeds@yuku.com (Maverick9128) — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 00:57:27 GMT

So my ex of two and a half years and I recently broke up to avoid the long distance relationship when going separate ways to different universities away from home. we were together for two and a half years and she was willing to commit to me and make the long distance thing work. I didn't see it like that and would rather end the relationship before we both left then both get hurt later in freshman year.

So a week after we break up i hear she has hooked up with someone else at a...

should I be jealous over her sex aid

feeds@yuku.com (randbman) — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:37 GMT

My girlfriend uses a dildo to reach $%%++% because she says, in the past, male partners have not been able (with only a very few exceptions) to give her an $%%++%. Like many toys of this nature, this thing is hung like a horse. I know she loves me and I can satisfy her in other ways, but there's no way I can compete with the size and "features" of this factory-made love machine. Should I just pleasure her my own way and forget about her toy.

Catholic girlfriend won't let her touch me "there"...

feeds@yuku.com (Krim) — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 13:58:18 GMT

First things first, hello to everybody, and pleased to have met this community, I hope to enjoy a great fellowship here and to take and give a lot of advice.

Well, the title is fairly self-explanatory, but I will give more details. I have been dating this girls for 14 months, we enjoy a fantastic relationship in almost all aspects, but this one is driving me nuts. When we are intimate, she gets really aroused, I mean, more than any of my ex-girlfriends for the matter. She enjoys...

Should I ask for him back?

feeds@yuku.com (sl89) — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 13:17:24 GMT

So the guy I was dating for 2 years told me he didn't need to see what we had as a relationship, after I told him it was difficult.

Although all other times he is very loving and tells me he loves me, I'm his girlfriend etc so it was totally surprising.

But this comment totally shocked me - as he has left me once before - I decided to finish him. I felt good about my decision and getting someone who actually did care about me that much.

But then he told me...

Confused

feeds@yuku.com (Vman) — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 18:27:46 GMT

Ok, here is the deal.

I am a 34 year old man. I still think of myself as that 15 year old idiot that I was 19 years ago, but the fact of the matter is I am 34. I have been told I don't really look it, not that it really matters, because I think the people that told me that were just being nice. I have also been called a big teddy bear, and I am not exactly thrilled about that, but what are you going to do.

It has been six years since I have been in a real...

Dating My FINE Neighbor

feeds@yuku.com (evets) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 12:45:57 GMT

Can someone please explain this??

feeds@yuku.com (LadyLiberty) — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 11:06:53 GMT

OK Where does this mentality that guys like it when girls flirt with them come from?? I mean, It sounds like bull to me. And also, Can Someone PLEASE explain where the mentality that if u give urself away to ur bf then he'll remain committed to u come from?? Now that one is bull!! I mean, seriously, don't u know that if he asks you to do it with u he's just gonna dump u like a hot tamale?? I mean really!! I guess chastity means almost nothing anymore!!! It means a lot to me, but...