Hey divamom,

Sorry to hear about how you're feeling and I'm sure there are a ton of people that can
relate to you...

Anyway, before I go into some of the details of something that might help you, I'd like
you (and anyone else reading this thread) to go ahead and re-read what you wrote and
really try and get a feeling for what you were saying and what message is being conveyed
here.

Really think about tall the stuff that went on subconsciously as you wrote out exactly what
your situation is and how you currently feel as a result of your situation.

...Did you do it?

....Really?

...OK, Let's move on...

I realize that this is a tough time for you but based on what I read...it's obvious that this is
something that you think about all the time and that it's something that's really affecting you
and I'd bet that you really focus on how much you'd like to get out of your current situation...
how you don't want to feel lonely anymore... right?

Well, here's something that you may want to think about... If that's the case, what you're doing
is focusing on all the things that you DO NOT want and not the true thing that you DO want...

Does that make sense?

Let me explain...

...You're talking about how your 13 year old daughter has a better social life than you do, how you're
other kids are grown and out of the house and how you are feeling lonely and have so much time
on your hands that you don't know what to do.

It doesn't seem like you're focusing on the one thing that you really DO want which is to find someone
to have a relationship with. To share time together and find someone that you love.

Now here's what I want you to do if you haven't already done this...

If you haven't already sat down and really thought about WHO it is that you want to attract in EXACT
detail, than that's the very first thing that you want to do...

Seriously, sit down and think of how you want him to look, what color hair he has, whether he has a
beard, what kind of clothes does he where, where he works, what he like to do in his past time, whether
he has kids, whether he likes to travel, the type of physical condition he's in, where he lives...

Literally sit down and think of as many details as you possibly can so you can get a CRYSTAL CLEAR
picture of exactly who it is that you want to attract.

You see, if you don't do this... if you don't go into extreme detail of the exact things that you want from
a man... if you don't have a crystal clear picture in your mind of EXACTLY what it that you want...

...then you have no idea whether or not you're getting it or not!

You gotta be as detailed as you possibly can and really find the exact picture of the man that you are trying
to attract and then see what amazing results you'll get.

I know this may sound new agey or whatever but it flat out works...

Give it a shot and let us know how it works for ya....

--CJ