Hun i know how you feel all my ex's do it and every man i know looks as well it seems to be a part of them, and no matter what their woman looks like she could be the hottest woman in the world they still look, i have found men like looking at fantasies they will never have, it starts crossing the line when they need to look at them before having any type of sexual contact with anyone, if your man has no problem being intimate with you without looking then there shouldnt be an issue men always want to look at what they cant have, we just dont get jealous when its a car or a boat, or a sandwich, only when its something we know is competition for us. Ask him if he can not look at it before he has intimacies with you, to save them for his alone time if he really needs to look, and hun dont worry about him looking if its just looking i cant stress that enough us women tend to turn something thats nothing into something and honestly this really is nothing unless he can only have sex after looking at those pics.

I can say from personal experience dont make pics or vids etc unless you absolutley do not care at all if anyone else sees them, if a fight happens or break up etc be prepared for those pics to be shown, or in the case of an ex of mine the movie to be shown to his friends while your at work LOL while you were still dating. So tread very cautiously there hun.

On a side note do not ever feel crappy about yourself, so what you dont look like an air brushed bulimic female who gets paid to have people oogle and touch themselves over her, remember most of their photos are touched up so much your fiance wouldnt even reconize them if they walked up and had an hour long convo with him. YOU are beautiful inside and out and always think that about yourself, dont worry about what anyone else thinks about you, the only opinion that matters there is your own, if you hold yourself as beautiful others will think you are too, and the ones that dont, well they dont deserve your attention anyways. I hope i helped you some and maybe i can learn to take some of my own advice LOL i get really jealous over !*%% and i know i shouldnt LOL.