Ok, how do people read this.
First mistake, started a fling with a guy.
Second mistake, saying it had to end as it was because I would end up getting hurt if it's just a fling....how about a date - or words to that effect that cause him to run for the hills...
But I stand firm as I'm not prepared to back track.
A month later he gets in touch to ask how I am, something he hadn't done for some time. We chat, I ask what he wanted me for-to see how I was....Another month...I sign up to a social networking group and he gets an invite because I didn't delete his email.
Two weeks later I decide to call BS on any idea of 'friends', as most people use it to appease guilt or to keep someone as a back up shag, if you're sincere fair enough but I can't do that now....
About a week later he takes up the invite. No message.
Why do that? You pretty much shut to door on someone and they do that?
If you want to talk then talk to me. Grrr
First mistake, started a fling with a guy.
Second mistake, saying it had to end as it was because I would end up getting hurt if it's just a fling....how about a date - or words to that effect that cause him to run for the hills...
But I stand firm as I'm not prepared to back track.
A month later he gets in touch to ask how I am, something he hadn't done for some time. We chat, I ask what he wanted me for-to see how I was....Another month...I sign up to a social networking group and he gets an invite because I didn't delete his email.
Two weeks later I decide to call BS on any idea of 'friends', as most people use it to appease guilt or to keep someone as a back up shag, if you're sincere fair enough but I can't do that now....
About a week later he takes up the invite. No message.
Why do that? You pretty much shut to door on someone and they do that?
If you want to talk then talk to me. Grrr
