Me and my partner have been together for two years and we are living together and we have two children together. When we had been together a few months I asked him if he liked to look or watch ##+* as most men did it and if he did then it wasn't a problem as the ##+* didn't bother me and his response was "no I don't need to look at ##+* because I have got you and I don't need anything else" I asked again a couple of months later and he said the same thing again. I believed him and never thought no more of it as I believed that he was telling the truth and wasn't lying to me. This was till the other night when I went to bed before him as I usually do as I get quite tired but a few hours later I couldn't sleep so I came down to find my partner he didn't hear me coming and I caught him looking at ##+*. I was quite angry and walked off, in the morning once I had calmed down I asked him if this was a one off or if he had been doing it regularly, his response was I just do it when i'm bored I didn't believe him and therefore kept pushing the issue after a while he admitted that he had been doing it throughout our entire relationship and that he hadn't told me "because he didn't want to upset me or hurt my feelings" did he not think that by lying to me and me finding out like this would hurt, betray and upset me? Sometimes I will also sleep on the sofa before going to bed and he has admitted that while I am asleep on the sofa that he looks at ##+* and that when I was going to bed before him he would look at ##+* and pleasure himself. He says that he always thought that I would never find out and that he would never have to tell me and bascially that it would be his dirty little secret, isn't that betraying my trust? I also found out that he contributes to ##+* as well, when I say this I mean that he has joined this website that is ##+* and is for men who have a fantasy of tall women and bascially people post images that they have designed in a computer software programme to turn them on, it's of women that have been made taller but in all sorts of scenorarios and I bet you can imagine their quite tasteless and disgusting. My partner looks at them every night for 3-4 hours for 2-3 weeks and then he says that he cools off for 2-3 weeks and then starts the same pattern again isn't this addictive behaviour? How do I trust him again? Do I forgive him or do I walk away from our relationship?