My ex broke up with me a year ago. She got with this guy about 2 weeks later and moved in with him a few months later.
I told her she was making a mistake cos the guy has told lies, deceived her, said bad things about her to me and been completely abusive towards me.
She kept in contact with me while on the one hand telling me that I shouldn't contact her again but then contacting me.
I stopped all contact with her in July 2011 but she got in contact with me via a fake facebook profile in September. Saying she missed me and that she just wanted to see if I was OK. We chatted back and forth which started to escalate into December when I started to wonder what was going on. She was adding friends of mine on her fake profile. When it came to xmas we emailed each other a few times that day and then I heard nothing till Jan 2nd when she emailed me to say that her new years was utter shite. I asked her why and she told me that she'd been shouted at all night very loudly. I again asked why and she said it was pathetic-ness and to nevermind. So I said OK and deleted her from my friends list. Thinking that she's just playing games.
Then she starts emailing me asking why I've deleted her, so I said it had been nearly a year since we'd seen each other and I didn't see that changing and did she?
She replied "...I honestly don't know
"
so I said "lol that's not very helpful. Can you see where I'm coming from?"
she said "kinda. I guess it's your choice at the end of the day"
I said "the way I see it is you want me in your life but only so far. You want to tell me stuff but not too much. I feel like a bad habit that you don;t want anyone to know about"
She said "I see your point. I guess I'm trying to, selfishly, hold onto something I've lost. Maybe in Vain."
I asked "what are you trying to hold onto?"
She replied "my friend"
"You have a new best friend now though" I said
a week or so goes by and she finally answers "I do, Yes. Didn't realise I could only have one friend at a time though"
I didn;t reply to this and a day later she's completely deleted that account...so I left it at that
A week and a half later she emails me again elsewhere to say "....you were right...I've made a huge mistake. Just wanted you to know."
So my mind is spinning...I asked her what she meant and no answer
I asked her again...and eventually she replies with a response to a humorous remark I made to keep things light but not answering my question...
so I asked her again what the huge mistake was
she said "Nevermind. I was out of order venting in your direction. Hope you're OK. Take care."
What do you think is going on?
I told her she was making a mistake cos the guy has told lies, deceived her, said bad things about her to me and been completely abusive towards me.
She kept in contact with me while on the one hand telling me that I shouldn't contact her again but then contacting me.
I stopped all contact with her in July 2011 but she got in contact with me via a fake facebook profile in September. Saying she missed me and that she just wanted to see if I was OK. We chatted back and forth which started to escalate into December when I started to wonder what was going on. She was adding friends of mine on her fake profile. When it came to xmas we emailed each other a few times that day and then I heard nothing till Jan 2nd when she emailed me to say that her new years was utter shite. I asked her why and she told me that she'd been shouted at all night very loudly. I again asked why and she said it was pathetic-ness and to nevermind. So I said OK and deleted her from my friends list. Thinking that she's just playing games.
Then she starts emailing me asking why I've deleted her, so I said it had been nearly a year since we'd seen each other and I didn't see that changing and did she?
She replied "...I honestly don't know
"so I said "lol that's not very helpful. Can you see where I'm coming from?"
she said "kinda. I guess it's your choice at the end of the day"
I said "the way I see it is you want me in your life but only so far. You want to tell me stuff but not too much. I feel like a bad habit that you don;t want anyone to know about"
She said "I see your point. I guess I'm trying to, selfishly, hold onto something I've lost. Maybe in Vain."
I asked "what are you trying to hold onto?"
She replied "my friend"
"You have a new best friend now though" I said
a week or so goes by and she finally answers "I do, Yes. Didn't realise I could only have one friend at a time though"
I didn;t reply to this and a day later she's completely deleted that account...so I left it at that
A week and a half later she emails me again elsewhere to say "....you were right...I've made a huge mistake. Just wanted you to know."
So my mind is spinning...I asked her what she meant and no answer
I asked her again...and eventually she replies with a response to a humorous remark I made to keep things light but not answering my question...
so I asked her again what the huge mistake was
she said "Nevermind. I was out of order venting in your direction. Hope you're OK. Take care."
What do you think is going on?
