Hi ladies, I need some wise words.
I've met the man I thought to be my soulmate. He is truly everything I've ever wanted in a man.
There's a catch though, on our first date he asked my every imaginable question about my self and told me all about himself, including the fact that he has an ex he cant be with for various reasons and that they are just "good" friends.
About a month into our relationship, he tells me she was pushing hard and is back in his life, he however did not want to let me go, the more distance I kept the harder he pursued me.
I told him I was not comfortable with the fact that he is seeing her as well, he said he will look into it, but nothing happened.
Although he kept taking me out and we did alot together, I found it unfair that he never introduced me to his friends, family, or colleagues although he's met mine.
The last straw for me came when I heard from a friend that he still takes her out to all his important work functions, etc. The most annoying thing was that he kept saying how hard their relationship was, and it just wasnt working, and he felt so sad in his heart...blah, blah, blah.
So I invited him over, told him it was over since he was still with her and that we needed to stop all forms of communication in the mean time.
He still kept calling, sometimes very late at night like nothing happened, until I had to send a rude text message telling me to leave me alone.
Did I jump the gun, or should I have been patient???
I really did think he was the man of my dreams, HELP!!!
I've met the man I thought to be my soulmate. He is truly everything I've ever wanted in a man.
There's a catch though, on our first date he asked my every imaginable question about my self and told me all about himself, including the fact that he has an ex he cant be with for various reasons and that they are just "good" friends.
About a month into our relationship, he tells me she was pushing hard and is back in his life, he however did not want to let me go, the more distance I kept the harder he pursued me.
I told him I was not comfortable with the fact that he is seeing her as well, he said he will look into it, but nothing happened.
Although he kept taking me out and we did alot together, I found it unfair that he never introduced me to his friends, family, or colleagues although he's met mine.
The last straw for me came when I heard from a friend that he still takes her out to all his important work functions, etc. The most annoying thing was that he kept saying how hard their relationship was, and it just wasnt working, and he felt so sad in his heart...blah, blah, blah.
So I invited him over, told him it was over since he was still with her and that we needed to stop all forms of communication in the mean time.
He still kept calling, sometimes very late at night like nothing happened, until I had to send a rude text message telling me to leave me alone.
Did I jump the gun, or should I have been patient???
I really did think he was the man of my dreams, HELP!!!
