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wonkey alice	please help	Lead	[-]
Posts: 1 (Jan 4, 2009 22:20:37) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts	Hi....Have moved in with a lovely gentleman ... but my main worry is evertime we go some where or everytime we do somethink he says i done this with my ex or we went here months ago or we had this for dinner he keeps saying things as we go my other partner ...id rather not know as it hurts have told him that im me im here she s not all i cant get my head around it is why bring this up all the time??
hollyoak		#1	[-]
Posts: 3 (Jan 23, 2009 08:02:22) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts	honey he is probably just relaying past experiences to you... or at worst maybe he isnt over her? but then why has he moved in with you??? ya either gotta give it up or let it go, try not being threatened by her ghost! be your best self, confident , friendly and try do ing something NEW, inventive and exciting THAT YOU HAVE never done before!!!! If he has done "it" insert activoty with his wife then next time he says anything like that, you might like to respond with A CHEEKY and playful.. "shall we invite her along next time?".. that should send him the message in a non threatening or whiney way. If it doesnt then you may need to explain to him that you dont want to feel compared to her.

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