We had only been going out for about one month, so I am not devastated. However, I felt compelled to get some feedback on the subject.
On our second date, he started to get very hot and heavy. I am not the type of woman who gets that intense on just the second date but there was a special added circumstance. I had just had surgery to remove a noncancerous mass from around my right ovaries. Everything down there still isn't back to normal and getting too intense just isn't physically an option yet. I explained the situation and he seemed to understand.
On our third date, he found out that I was serious about all of this. He said he would call and then never did. Days later, he emails me to break up with me. His excuse was that we were not on the same physical intimacy level, which is not difficult to translate into what he really meant.
